Joe and Meade had a daughter and son. Soon after Meade's death, Joe hired Molly to keep house and take care of his two children. His work on the railroad kept him away from home for periods of time.
The family story goes that one Sunday,
on the way to church, Joe asked Molly to marry him since she was
already taking care of his house and kids. It turned into a
prolific match that lasted until his death in 1945.
Molly was a true hillbilly in the mold
portrayed by Granny in the Beverly Hillbillys TV show. She was tough
on everyone who might have stayed for any time at the family farm in
Scarborough. An earlier post told the story of the farm. One cousin
related that if you stayed at the farm, you were expected to work
just like her kids. With the first electricity on the farm, Joe
bought a washing machine. He returned to the farm one day to find
Molly taking a switch to JL because he had taken the washing machine
a part and was not having any success getting it put back together.
Joe stopped her and his only comment was “that's what boys do”.
Molly was a frequent visitor to our
home in California in the years after WWII. I remember as a child,
meeting her at the train station in Los Angeles. As she stepped off
the train she is holding a 1 pound coffee can full of her tobacco
spit. Then the hugs that smelled of long train rides and tobacco.
As tough as she could be, family
members respected her for all she had been through in her life. 14
children in 28 years. 6 of them dieing in their first few months.
Widowed twice and moved from the family farm prior to WWII. She
represents the hearty spirit of the early 20th century
women.
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